With the below, I don’t want to give the impression that I think my friend should walk into the long dark night (or the bright white light, depending on your point of view) before she’s ready. I only mean that it’s a lot easier for someone to decide that she is ready if the surrounding people admit that it’s her decision, her best interests, her timeline that matters. Not theirs.
Personally, I would love a miracle. But what I want isn’t important in her case. That’s all I’m saying.